This week, I want to shine a light on something we’ve all felt at some point: envy. Whether you’re on the receiving end or noticing it rise within yourself, envy has a way of creeping in—and I’ve seen so much of it this past year that I felt it’s time we talk about it openly.
So, what is envy really? It’s that unsettling feeling of wanting what someone else has—whether it’s their success, their qualities, or even their “luck.” Think about a time when a friend shared good news—a job promotion, a happy relationship, a personal achievement—and instead of celebrating fully, you felt a pang inside. That’s envy knocking.
Emotions Don’t Travel Alone
Envy rarely comes by itself. It’s usually tangled with frustration, self-doubt, and comparison. What we do with it is what matters most. It can either drain us—or drive us.
Remember being a kid and seeing someone show off the toy you wanted so badly? At that age, you might have sulked. But as adults, we have the chance to flip envy into something useful. Instead of spiraling into “Why not me?” we can shift into “What can I do to get there?”
Envy as a Challenge
Handled positively, envy becomes a challenge of self:
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I don’t have this… yet.
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What steps can I take to get closer?
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How do I turn this energy into action?
The other side, of course, is self-pity—where we wallow, compare, and convince ourselves we’re less valuable. We’ve all been there. But staying stuck there only hurts us more.
Use Envy to Build, Not Break
When we stop fighting envy and start learning from it, we turn it into a tool for growth. Instead of draining us, it can inspire us to set goals and move toward them. And yes, it’s okay to have moments of frustration—we’re human. What matters is not letting envy overstay its welcome.
Remember: There’s Only One You
Whenever you feel jealousy rising, remind yourself: your journey is different. Your timing is different. Your experiences are yours alone. What takes someone a day might take you a year—and that’s perfectly okay.
We are not cut from the same cloth. Everyone carries their struggles differently. And that’s why the mantra is simple:
✨ ENVY NO ONE. ✨
Recognizing the Negative to Find the Positive
It’s important to acknowledge the darker side of envy too. Ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. Sometimes, we are our own biggest obstacle. Facing that truth is hard, but it’s also where the breakthrough begins.
Ask yourself: Am I letting envy drain me? Or am I using it to fuel my growth? The answer changes everything.
A Few Takeaways
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Don’t expect yourself from others.
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Allow yourself to feel both negative and positive emotions.
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Don’t let envy overstay.
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Your path is different from anyone else’s.
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Material things are not the real prize—mastering yourself is.
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Compare less, grow more.
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Always make your past self your biggest competition.
Before I close, here’s something I want you to remember: envy isn’t always the enemy. Sometimes, it’s the very thing that pushes us to rise higher. Feeling it doesn’t make you weak—it makes you human. What you do with it is what makes you strong.
Wear the Message. Live the Mindset.
That’s exactly why we created the ENVN01 merchandise line. It’s more than just clothing—it’s a reminder. Every hoodie, tee, or cap carries the message: Your only competition is yourself. ENVY NO ONE.
Wear it for yourself. Wear it to inspire others. Wear it as a declaration that you’ve chosen growth over comparison.
So the next time envy shows up—recognize it, redirect it, and rise above it.
And if you need a daily reminder? Grab your ENVN01 t-shirts and carry the mindset with you.
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